Nicola Killops, founder of NeuroParenting Hub, supports parents navigating their children's school years with 20+ years of educational expertise.
A fuller, more humane guide to helping different brains study in ways they can actually return to. Most study advice is written for learners who can sit down, start cleanly, stay focused, tolerate the page, and show what they know in neat little boxes. Plenty of learners cannot do that.
There are television characters you enjoy, and then there are the ones you recognise. The first can make you laugh, quote lines, and carry a whole series on timing and charm alone. The second settle somewhere deeper. They remind you of children you have taught, children you have raised, children
I ugly-cried at the final episode of The Middle. Not a quiet little tear. Not even a respectable cry. My face gave up entirely, my nose blocked, and I sounded like a wounded donkey. It was not my finest hour. The strange thing is, I should have expected it.
As The Middle climbs the Netflix charts again, one character is landing very differently this time. Brick Heck was always memorable. The whispering, the intense focus on his interests, the social misfires, the way he seemed slightly out of step with the world around him. When the show first aired,
Many parents carry a reasonable assumption about children and reading. If a child loves stories, surely literature at school should feel easy. After all, this is often the child who devours films, discusses characters endlessly, invents complex narratives, and analyses plot twists with surprising sophistication. Yet for many learners, the
I want to share something that has been sitting heavily with me, because it speaks to a much bigger problem than just one situation. For the past while, I’ve been caring for a young neurodivergent girl who has fallen through more cracks than I can count. Like so many
Almost four years ago, when I began reaching out to parents through my writing, one article found its way to someone who needed support for his own children. We started talking, quietly at first, about learning, about schools, about what happens when the system doesn’t quite fit the child
A Facebook memory popped up the morning we received my son’s matric results. A photo from fifteen years ago, taken on his first day of Grade 1. Same boy. Same face. A very different moment. The timing felt almost pointed. By the time that photo was taken, we already
There’s a particular stretch of time between Christmas Eve and New Year’s where the calendar gives up. You wake up unsure what day it is. Breakfast turns into snacks. Bedtimes drift. Everyone’s a little fried, but no one wants to admit it because we’re supposed to
If you have a daughter who walks through the front door after school and immediately dissolves into tears, or shuts herself in her room, or clings to you without knowing why — you’re not imagining it. This is one of the clearest patterns in autistic and ADHD girls. They don’
By Nicola Killops There is a quiet crisis in South Africa: gifted children falling through the cracks because so few people truly understand what giftedness looks like. We tend to imagine giftedness as perfect grades and calm confidence. We picture a child who intuitively excels at everything. Meanwhile, real gifted
Every few months, someone warns of the “tidal wave of neurodiverse diagnoses” — as if we’ve all caught ADHD like the flu. The implication is that difference has become fashionable, that acronyms are the new accessories. Relax. The wave didn’t arrive. We finally turned around and faced the ocean.